Explore your guy…

Explore your guy

Explore your guy


I was just reading a very nice post by vixenincognito about how to please a man and thought I would add my two cents. This, of course, is based on my personal preference, so I don’t need to repeat after every word that I am talking about what I like and what I think other men might like as well.

Let me start all of this by saying, “Don’t take anything for granted. Communication is what makes sex best”. So express how you feel about things in bed and be receptive to how your partner feels and likes, let go and don’t think much.”

While sucking his cock, make sure he doesn’t get too sensitive, one good sign to watch that, is feeling him first getting hard and then getting softer again. Unless he is falling asleep or watching a football match, that mostly would mean that you are giving too much attention to the head or letting your teeth get in the way a little and he is getting too sensitive. If you think he is getting too sensitive, switch to licks instead of sucking, avoid the head and get his cock wet with your saliva (or flavored lube, or your pussy ;) )

Handjobs, guys generally ( or at least myself ) like them more than many would think. Guys grow up and the first sensation they experience when it comes to sex, is their own hand pleasing their cocks. So jerking his cock off will almost always be sexy. Speak about fantasies while you are giving him a slow handjob, ask him his naughtiest fantasies and tell him your naughtiest fantasies. You can watch porn together too ( if you are into that )

When you are sucking him or giving him a handjob, don’t limit yourself! Sometimes women tend to think that men are easy to figure out, they have this thing pointing out all the time, so that must be where he wants me to touch him, right? Well, yes, but we have a whole body as well.

So tease my balls, caress them, lick them, suck them. Run your hands on my skin all over, tease my nipples too (yeah, those work for men too), lick them and suck them as well (yeah, that doesn’t make me feel any less masculine as many might think). Touch my ass, tease it with your finger (wet preferably), lick it, finger it (but make sure I want you to first. And no, that doesn’t make any guy more or less gay.)

I might write a follow up to this later, but I think that will do for now.

About Sam Dolan
I am Sam Dolan, and this is a place to explore fantasies and escape reality. Find me here: https://sexplor.wordpress.com | http://twitter.com/samdln

7 Responses to Explore your guy…

  1. vixenincognola says:

    Well done!
    Communication is definitely key to the best sex ever… #truestory

  2. CAWhite says:

    LOVE that picture.

  3. Anisa says:

    I’m sorry, are there words below that photo? Oof.

  4. I hate to admit this, but I always forget about the balls. I needed another reminder, so thanks!

  5. Marie says:

    Talking during sex? Yes please. Instructions, directions, orders, and occasionally screams. The mouth serves many purposes…

  6. Sam Dolan says:

    I like to tell my girl why I think she is naughty as I spank her… But I like it even more when she asks for it.

  7. my goal with oral is always my own pleasure *blush*
    with a good man, i can spend a long time on his cock and it is very much the same way i kiss

    i want him to know i enjoy..even lust after his cock
    i want to make love to his cock with my mouth and hands
    i pay attention and try to keep him on edge for as long as he is willing to stay there

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