Polyamory

Polyamory

I consider myself polyamorous and it’s something that is hard to understand for many. It took me a long time to fully understanding myself. At first I saw myself as just another horny guy who can’t stop himself from wanting women, all of them. And I was seeing myself that way, not because I wanted “all women”, it was because I was comparing myself to the society where men and women grow up with the fact that the desire to be with ONE partner is what’s normal and accepted.

There is also a difference between polyamory and polygamy. You can have more than one close friend that you truly love and enjoy time with, even though you still have ONE favorite best friend.

It was hard for me to accept the fact that I need, want and enjoy affection. That I can’t hold myself back and just force myself to direct all my feelings towards one single person. Now that I accept it and accept myself without having to live with guilt imposed by the society, I am happy, I know what I want and it’s easier for me to be clear with others about it up front, so no one will get hurt.

Polyamory is not about being greedy. Polyamory is not about sex. Even though sex is a good aspect of it, just like any sexual/intimate relationship.

Were you ever in a relationship and caught yourself enjoying a moment with another person and gave you butterflies and just wanted to let go and kiss them but you just kept holding back and repeating to yourself “I don’t cheat”?

Did you ever feel a strong feeling towards a friend that you couldn’t identify it whether it was just lust, love or just being really close to a friend?

If that’s the case, does it make you feel any better knowing that you are not alone?

Domination is earned not taken.

While talking with one of the readers. I have realized that some of what I say might stir some bad memories. I write about passion, intimacy, lust and also about rough sex, domination, rape role-plays and the whole spectrum.
 
Let me start by saying that I am sorry if any of my words stirred up any undesired feelings in any of you.
 
I write about everything I like and I do so without referring to any relationship or a person in particular. It’s just me sharing my desires.

I am saying that because that’s totally different from how it’s like when you are with someone. When you are with someone, you do what you both like and desire.. not just your desires. I don’t do all and everything you read on my blog with every woman I end up with.

 
Even when I talk about forcing something on a woman I am with or being forceful and rough, I usually make sure it’s clear that around that force is intimacy, passion and caring for the other person. Because that’s how it is for me, really. No matter how rough I am, I do it only if I know the person on the receiving end is enjoying it as well.
 
Inflicting or forcing something upon someone else who is not welcoming/enjoying it, just makes me sick in fact, not to mention a turn off.

So the only situation that I will be doing everything I am saying on my blog with one person, would be meeting a female duplicate of myself. Which will be actually damn boring. No challenges, nothing to explore and no limits to push.

No matter how dominating or rough I can be, I can’t think of anything sexier than a strong woman who willingly give herself to me. I don’t think using or abusing a woman, emotionally speaking, is something I ever did nor ever will.

Even though some might disagree with me, I think domination is all about trust, and it is earned not taken.

 

That day with your family

French kissing your pussy

French kissing your pussy

I remember that day when your family invited me over at the country side… I remember every time we look at each other with eyes full of lust .. and I remember how I used to touch your thighs under the table as we do our best to make straight faces as my finger tips crawl up your skirt.

But what I remember most how we sneaked upstairs and once we closed the door, I didn’t waste a second, I pushed you back on this couch, pushed your legs up against your chest and spread for you to hold them there, your skirt was already riding up your hips … I looked into your eyes and pushed your panties to one side as I literally dived in to taste you …

I know you remember too, I know you remember how I was moaning and groaning against your pussy, as you felt my tongue finding it’s way inside your wetness.

I know you remember how did you taste your own pussy on my lips afterwards :)

Tonight, you are mine.

Tonight you are mine

Tonight, you are mine

 

It has been a long time. We finally met.

The moment our eyes met earlier that night, I felt that urge, that need, to make hard, needy, rough love to you.

Tonight you are mine… mine to take, to love, to use, to worship, to own.

I will fuck you hard. So hard. I will use you for my pleasure, any way I desire. I will hurt you with my cock. I will fill your insides with my seed. I will consume you… But I will never stop kissing you.

Tonight, I want us to fall asleep with my arms around you and my cock deep inside you.

Explore your guy…

Explore your guy

Explore your guy

 

I was just reading a very nice post by vixenincognito about how to please a man and thought I would add my two cents. This, of course, is based on my personal preference, so I don’t need to repeat after every word that I am talking about what I like and what I think other men might like as well.

Let me start all of this by saying, “Don’t take anything for granted. Communication is what makes sex best”. So express how you feel about things in bed and be receptive to how your partner feels and likes, let go and don’t think much.”

While sucking his cock, make sure he doesn’t get too sensitive, one good sign to watch that, is feeling him first getting hard and then getting softer again. Unless he is falling asleep or watching a football match, that mostly would mean that you are giving too much attention to the head or letting your teeth get in the way a little and he is getting too sensitive. If you think he is getting too sensitive, switch to licks instead of sucking, avoid the head and get his cock wet with your saliva (or flavored lube, or your pussy ;) )

Handjobs, guys generally ( or at least myself ) like them more than many would think. Guys grow up and the first sensation they experience when it comes to sex, is their own hand pleasing their cocks. So jerking his cock off will almost always be sexy. Speak about fantasies while you are giving him a slow handjob, ask him his naughtiest fantasies and tell him your naughtiest fantasies. You can watch porn together too ( if you are into that )

When you are sucking him or giving him a handjob, don’t limit yourself! Sometimes women tend to think that men are easy to figure out, they have this thing pointing out all the time, so that must be where he wants me to touch him, right? Well, yes, but we have a whole body as well.

So tease my balls, caress them, lick them, suck them. Run your hands on my skin all over, tease my nipples too (yeah, those work for men too), lick them and suck them as well (yeah, that doesn’t make me feel any less masculine as many might think). Touch my ass, tease it with your finger (wet preferably), lick it, finger it (but make sure I want you to first. And no, that doesn’t make any guy more or less gay.)

I might write a follow up to this later, but I think that will do for now.

Is your clit getting jealous?

Working my tongue

Working my tongue

 

Working my tongue slowly all around your tits .. licking your softness in circles .. yet not touching the nipple yet .. as i lick my way towards it … my hand cupping and feeling the other tit as i take my time to lick this one.

Flicking the tip of my tongue barely against your nipple .. then blowing lightly on it to feel your body shivering against me.

licking on it .. slurping .. then taking it between my lips to suck it … pull on it with my lips .. as my other hand slide down your tummy and cup your pussy

my finger sliding in your wetness as i start pulling on your nipples with my lips and suck harder … fingering you as i nibble on them and looking up to watch how much you like it.

Is your clit getting jealous?

I want to “rape” you.

I want to

Been a long time

It has been such a long time…

I missed you. I still do. I need you, and I want you even more. Our lips met, right after our eyes. Our clothes were flying away as my tongue caressed yours. Groaning and moaning against your lips. My cock hard pressing against you already. My arms around you lifting you off the ground, as I take you to our bed as soon as we are naked.

I broke the kiss for a second to take your face between my hands and the moment I looked in your eyes, I knew that you don’t want any more foreplay. That you can’t wait to have me, as much as I want to have you. With a smile full of lust and passion..  With a mix of roughness and desire, I took your legs in my hands, and pushed them apart and against your chest,.

I lower myself on top of you and slowly let my cock find its way into your wet velvet lips, throwing my head back as I whisper your name and how bad I missed that feeling… being inside you.

Till I can feel all my hard nine inches inside you, my balls against you, your thighs against my chest and your eyes looking into mine. I lean forward to kiss you ever so gently before whispering…..

“Tonight, I want to “rape” you, baby!”

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